A. The first step in dealing with a horse who exhibits potentially very dangerous behavior is to determine the cause behind the behavior. It sounds most likely that his runoffs are triggered by fear. That being the case, and the fact that he is apparently getting better over time, tells me you are on the right track. He seems to be a horse who has lost all confidence in his rider, has come to expect the worst (and possibly painful) consequences, and is quick to revert to his natural flight instincts. When he gets scared, nervous, or frustrated, his instincts tell him to run – to escape … and that’s just what he tries to do. Without knowing every hurtful or frightening situation this horse has endured in his life, you really have no way of anticipating every situation that may trigger a runoff.

Your description of this horse’s behavior with his pasture mates clearly identifies him as an “alpha” personality. It’s enough to make me consider the possibility that his runoffs may also be, at least partly, power plays. Horses who have been used as rental hacks for a long time, as your horse apparently has, are subject to potentially tremendous abuse from a wide variety of riders ranging from terrified beginners to skilled equestrians. In fact, I was surprised when you identified his mouth as being soft. That’s quite uncommon for a rental hack. Most often, their mouths turn to steel after years of kick-and-pull riding. Rental horses generally respond to the abuse they endure by either turning into absolute deadheads who will put up with nearly anything or becoming downright dangerous. The stronger a horse’s innate personality, the more likely he won’t take kindly to abuse and will eventually develop dangerous habits. Is this starting to sound familiar?

You have asked about changing bits. As you’ve already realized, stronger is not better with this horse. You have realized a remarked improvement in this horse with your current bit over a relatively short period of time. Don’t change it. A stronger bit will only give him cause to mistrust you, and that would be extremely counterproductive to your long-term goal. At this point, it sounds as though he is slowly developing some confidence in you. Remember that whatever caused these fear/aggressive responses in the first place probably happened over a course of many years. You can not hope to undo years of harm with a few months of kindness. You need to be extremely patient with this poor fellow, and let him know he will not be punished for his inappropriate responses.

When he runs off, try to handle the episode as calmly as possible (easier said than done) without causing him pain (try to avoid jerking his mouth). You can use your voice to try to calm him, but only if you can keep your voice calm. If your voice reflects your anxiety and fear, better keep your mouth shut. Do make absolutely certain to try to maintain as much body relaxation as possible during his panic attacks. It’s hard to do, but if he feels you relax, he’ll be much more likely to respond to your requests for control. He won’t be able to slow down and relax if he feels your body as tense and tight as an overstrung guitar.

There is a very legitimate concern for your safety and the safety of those around you when you ride. I would suggest riding him only in the arena with the high walls until his bolting is under control and trying to ride him only when there is no one else in the arena. I know this may be very impractical (if not impossible), but do your best to keep the setting as quiet and safe as possible for all concerned. If that means riding early in the morning or late in the evening, then try to find a way to ride at those times. The fact that he’ll run over anything in his path when he bolts indicates a blind panic, and it’s extremely dangerous for all concerned. I once saw a rodeo bronc panic and run headlong into the arena wall. He split his head open and died instantly with the cowboy still on his back. This is a matter of grave concern. You must do everything you can to keep yourself and any other riders as safe as possible from your horse’s panic attacks.

Lastly, I strongly recommend that you not attempt to show this horse again until he no longer spooks and runs off at home at all. To do so would be placing your horse in a stressful situation for which he is clearly not prepared and putting all other competitors in jeopardy. It’s great that he has performed so well for you in past shows, but if he’s occasionally putting other riders at risk with his dangerous behavior, you have an obligation to keep him out of a ring with other competitors. If he causes injury to another horse or rider at a show, you may find yourself permanently banned from the ring – not to mention the strong potential for a lawsuit. Stay at home with this horse and work on building up a satisfactory and consistent trust level before trying to take him into unfamiliar settings. Once you have helped him become a confident and trustworthy mount at home, you can start taking him to shows and riding him casually around the grounds without competing. By never overfacing him with situations that cause dangerous responses, you’ll be able to gradually re-acclimate him to the competitive environment. Perhaps someday he’ll become that show horse you desire him to be, but your only hope of achieving that goal is by working with him on his timetable rather than your own.

You’ve clearly taken on quite the challenge with this animal, but I get the impression you really want to help him blossom into a happier and more confident riding partner. I wish you the best of luck.